The only way to learn how
to pick up girls at bars is to force yourself to go out where the single
women hang out. If you are like most singles, you probably hate singles
bars. But, in spite of this attitude, go to a bar or nightclub on a Friday
or Saturday night and you will find lots of single women looking for love
and romance. If you want to meet women, you owe it to yourself to visit
your local nightclubs and bars. If you learn how
to pick up girls at bars, these venues will become much more fun and
enjoyable for you and your friends.
Don't be fooled into believing that single women only go out to bars to
hang out with friends and have a good time. The primary reason they get
dressed up and spend hours on their hair is that they are hoping to meet
men. And you can score with them if you will just follow these simple rules: Limit
the amount of alcohol you drink and never let yourself get wasted.
Nothing
turns a woman off faster than a drunk guy hitting on her. Why waste your
time getting drunk and racking up a huge drink tab, when you could be
out approaching and getting to know more women. Drink before you go out
to the bar. Then just sip on cokes when you get to the bar. What a lot
of pick up artists like to do is carry a glass of water around with them.
This will keep your game on target and will also be easy on your wallet.
- Let it be known, you are going to be rejected! Accept it. It's part
of the game. Men want to know how
to pick up girls at bars but have difficulty in accepting that
sooner or later, you will be rejected by women. A lot of guys can't
handle rejection and give up when a girl is not interested in them.
They bury their frustration with alcohol, only to go home alone night
after night. Whatever you do you should never, under any circumstances,
give up! How badly do you want it? You have to be persistent in this
game. Continue to approach as many women as you can. Through sheer
numbers you will find someone who is interested in you. If you are
having no luck at one bar, leave and find another bar where you might
have better luck. Just keep trying to score with someone if it takes
you all night.
- Try to avoid posting up at the bar. A majority of the women at
clubs and bars do not hang around the bar. Take a look around and
you will see all the women hiding in the dark corners of the bars
and nightclubs. The strange part is that guys tend to be too shy
to approach women in these remote areas of the bar. There really
isn't much to meeting these beautiful women. The trick on how
to pick up girls at bars is to just go up to the woman and introduce
yourself. Ask them if they would like to dance or simply start a
conversation with her. Studying how
to pick up girls at bars will give you a huge advantage over
other men. You'll be way ahead of any competition from other men
if you just have the balls to approach women.
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I wanted to pass along a technique I used very successfully to pick up single women in bars and nightclubs. Try it and see how it works for you. You've got nothing to lose and lots of hot & sexy women to gain.
I call this technique, "The Birthday Method" of meeting and seducing women in bars and nightclubs. Here's how it works:
Remember back when you were a kid and how excited you got when it was your birthday because you knew you were going to get some gifts and you could hardly wait to open them. I remember I could hardly sleep the night before my birthday party.
What I did was use this excitement and anticipation from my birthday childhood memories to help me meet and pick up women at bars and nightclubs.
Here's what I would do: Before I went out to bars and nightclubs I would pretend it was my birthday and my birthday party was at the particular bar or nightclub I was going to that night. And I was going there to pick up my gifts.
Guess what the gifts were? It was the women that were there that I was attracted to. I would pretend all the single women in there were my gifts. I just had to choose the ones I desired to unwrap my gift, so to speak (if you know what I mean).
This method gave me confidence to approach women, knowing that they were my gifts. After all, it was my special night held in my honor and these women were my gifts. If you think about it, all women are God-given gifts to men.
Try this method and see if it works for you. It may seem a little bit silly to you, but trust me, you can work miracles just by using the power of your mind to pick up and seduce women.
This article written by Don Diebel (Americas #1 Singles Expert). If you would like more free dating tips on how to successfully meet, date, attract, and become intimate with women, please visit his website at: http://www.getgirls.com.
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